Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Love Update

I wrote back in July about Ryan breaking up with me. Since then Ryan and I continued to live together with the plan of moving out once I was back from my UK trip. Over the course of the past few weeks, beginning 2 weeks before I left for the UK, Ryan and I have been having conversations about getting back together. There were many things to be discussed, and I didn’t want to make a decision right away, after all, this was not the first time that we’d been on this bridge.

Well, after many conversations, and deep discussion, and after almost a month apart, we have decided to give it another shot. I am very happy about this. He is a great guy, and I think we are great together. I am of course going back into this with caution however, just in case he gets spooked again. We’ve dug deep into the reason that caused his flight, and have agreed that if we reach that point again, we’ll fight to stay together before we just give up. Of course only time will tell. In the meantime, we are just enjoying our relationship day by day, and we’ll see where it goes.

I just figured I owed you all an update.

9 comments:

  1. Good luck Caroline, I do hope it all goes well. Take care :)

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  2. me too, he makes me happy when we are together :) so hopefully we'll stay together.

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  3. No one deserves to find happiness more than you. You are such a joy to be around.

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  4. Thanks Yummy you are such a honey.

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  5. You deserve someone who is not a chicken to love you. I hope he has learned what he wants in life. Good luck.

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  6. hehehe, that made me chuckle.

    Right now he knows what he wants, I just hope it stays that way.

    Silly boys

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  7. didn't I tell you that something was happening right before the trip? This tickles me pink.

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  8. you sure did. It makes me very happy.

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  9. That is good news, something worth having is worth working for and hopefully will make you stronger. Take it one day at a time and the rest will happen as it happens.

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