tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3374790171461989014.post8953751004964129633..comments2023-05-25T07:30:50.475-07:00Comments on Song of Happiness: ForgivenessCarolinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08726024712032035713noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3374790171461989014.post-76859595628145560512012-11-29T08:30:02.737-08:002012-11-29T08:30:02.737-08:00A. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have fou...A. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have found that betrayal is one of the hardest things to get over. Maybe because we irrationally in many cases, feel someone what responsible for the situation ourselves, even when we were the one betrayed. How could we have let it happen, or not notice, set ourself up for it to happen. Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08726024712032035713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3374790171461989014.post-70345443976171485592012-11-29T03:27:32.114-08:002012-11-29T03:27:32.114-08:00You won't have been aware but my husband died ...You won't have been aware but my husband died unexpectedly last month. After the first shock and then going over all the regrets, in the end things start to fall into perspective. I haven't had too much of a struggle to forgive the usual episodes of life.<br /><br /><i>Our memory, suddenly sharpened,<br />examines,<br />gnaws on kind words unsaid,<br />promised walks never taken.</i><br /><br />What I have had to struggle with is a betrayal that happened a few years ago but has only relatively recently come to light. I haven't been able to forgive either the betrayal or myself for having so naively allowed myself to be used. <br /><br />As you say, it's best not to forget in some circumstances.<br /><br />I'm glad you managed to get out of your unhealthy relationship. Some people never do and I can somehow understand why. You keep hoping things will improve.A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04709794851766685322noreply@blogger.com